something called destiny

Maybe there really exists something called destiny. I never believed it because of its ridiculous randomness and too much of justfication. But, now that I've faced few of destinies by myself, I kind of became to believe its existence.
It came most obvious to me when I found out about Nellie McKay, the singer with a voice I fell in love with in just about a second. I have been always looking for good singers with attractive voices, but it never was easy for me to just find them with meticulous efforts. I rather tend to find them very randomly. I watched the movie 'P.S. I love you' pretty much randomlny on the airplane. I was quite interested in the actress who played holly's sister, knowing nothing about her singing career. But then, I typed her name in Youtube which brought me a whole bunch of her singing performances. Her songs were all my favorite. I simply fell in love with her voice. Yet, it was not manipulated by my effort. It just came very naturally and spontaneously. If that's what destiny worked for, then I thank for it.
Not only that, I experienced more deep sense of destinies these few days. Well, I had ever hated Chris from the boy group 'battle' due to his girly voice and feminized gesture. A year later, which is now, I fell in love with him, not excluding his girly voice and feminized gesture. To love someone, I thought I have to love him completely. I don't really like someone with girly voice. But, now I just accepted it as part of his characteristic and unique, yet, attractive point. Destiny changed me so to speak. Doesn't it quite make sense?
Well, although I am not adherent to destiny or destiny advocate or something. But, what I believe in is once you tie yourself up in destiny, there's no possibly many ways to get out of it. The important thing, therefore, is to relax and not bound by destiny, then destiny will come along without any tying up or caging you in. That's, at least, I learned from my destiny.